Tolerance Is Not Enough

by Dr. Benjamin Wiker

tolerance apologeticsIt would be all too easy—and also quite useful—to write an article on how intolerant the proponents of gay marriage are. How viciously they’ve attacked Mrs. Pitt for daring to publicly disagree with them. The lesson would be simple: See how intolerant the left-leaning champions of tolerance actually are!

It would also be easy—and again, both useful and important—to add instances of intolerance perpetrated by the rightward leaning against the left. I’ve seen an atheist shouted down in the Q & A period at a Christian conference before he’d even gotten a half-minute into his question.

The lesson would be that we’ve all got to be more tolerant. No death threats. No shouting down those who disagree. For better or worse, we’re living in an essentially pluralistic society. We’ll all be better off learning how to be more civil than starting civil wars. That’s an important lesson. But we need to go much deeper. Ask some questions that go beyond the usual.

We tend to treat Tolerance as if it is not just a virtue, but the virtue. What if Tolerance isn’t a virtue? What if it’s not even good enough to be a vice? What if it’s an ambiguous concept that only misleads us, keeping us from thinking about the real substance of how we should live together? What if—for some, strange historical or cultural reason—Tolerance has come to be a pseudo-virtue substitute for a real virtue, Justice? I’m not sure that’s true, but bear with me while I think out loud.

That’s the original meaning of tolerance, by the way—from the Latin tolerare, "to bear or endure." Keep that in mind. We’ll come back to it. So again, what if Tolerance isn’t a virtue, let alone the virtue, but as I said (again, bear with me), not even good enough to be a vice? What I mean is that, unlike real virtues, Tolerance is an empty concept without any intrinsic moral aim. Real virtues (and vices) have moral aims, and so you can ask about them "Should we be ___________?" and get a definite answer. Should we be Just? Yes. Should we be unjust? No. Should we be Courageous? Yes. Cowardly?  No.

Should we be tolerant? Notice you can’t get a definite answer the way that you can in regard to virtues and vices. Whether you should be tolerant or intolerant depends on the further questions: "Tolerant of what?" "Intolerant of what?"

Should the citizens of Germany in 1934 have been tolerant of the Nazi view, held by the elite intellectuals and not just German society’s dross, that Jews were an inferior and parasitic race? Here, Tolerance is bad. Is it wrong to be intolerant of the notion that those of African descent are genetically inferior and so should not be allowed to vote? Here, Intolerance is good.

The lesson: whether we should tolerant or intolerant of something depends upon whether that something is good or evil, just or unjust. Tolerance and Intolerance are both empty concepts, not a virtue and a vice. They can’t do any moral work because they have no moral content.

Another example, just to make sure we understand the difficulty. Are we being intolerant, as a society, in convicting Jerry Sandusky, the guy at Penn State who lured boys into his alleged charity so that he could molest them? At this point in time we believe that his actions were evil, and hence as a society, we do not tolerate either Sandusky’s actions or any group who would advocate that what Sandusky did was morally fine (and there is such a group, the North American Man-Boy Love Association, which not only wants society to tolerate pedophilia, but demands society’s social-moral-legal affirmation).

With Sandusky, we bring in words of real moral weight, which show how flimsy and fickle the notions of Tolerance and Intolerance are. We won’t tolerate men who lure in boys to molest them, and believe that it is a matter of justice that Sandusky be punished. We also believe that it was evil and unjust for Sandusky’s fellow Penn State buddies, including Joe Paterno, to tolerate his actions all those years. Intolerance of Sandusky’s actions is good; Tolerance was evil.

That’s the problem with Tolerance. That’s why it’s not a virtue, and certainly not the virtue. The demand, "We should be tolerant!" should always be met with the key moral question, "Tolerant of what?" and even more important, "Why?" At best Tolerance is an empty concept waiting to be filled with something else. At worst, as with the North American Man-Boy Love Association, it can be used to defend something that’s evil—a pseudo moral shield that fends off any real moral scrutiny and discussion by demanding that we bow before Tolerance as the virtue. So—bear with me for a little longer now—how did Tolerance get such elevated status in our culture? There are two related reasons, and I’ll start with the one that deserves the most blame.

Nihilistic Tolerance. Many who now cry up Tolerance as the virtue are the happy heirs of the notion that there is no good or evil, and that human beings have no access to truth. Truth and moral goodness are entirely relative, and entirely ungrounded in the cosmos. Claims about truth or moral good and evil are merely expressions of personal preferences. Therefore, since no one can be right or wrong, and no moral or immoral belief is any better or worse than any other, we must be entirely tolerant of everyone else’s subjective preferences so they’ll be tolerant of ours. For the nihilist, Tolerance is the virtue, because there are no other virtues and no truths to discover and defend. Therefore, Tolerance replaces the virtue of justice. Or, to say it more exactly, justice comes to mean "allowing everyone to do whatever he wants and think whatever he wants so you can do and think whatever you want." Justice comes to be defined as Tolerance.

You may think this is merely a new-fangled view, but it’s actually the view of Thomas Hobbes, one of history’s most influential political philosophers. He wrote in the mid-17th century. But the nihilistic notion of Tolerance is rarely consistent. Usually it’s put forward more for the sake of revolution, than on the basis of nihilism itself. Some group that runs against the grain of society’s moral standards, wants to gain eventual full acceptance through first claiming that its members are owed tolerance (justice is thereby collapsed into tolerance). Once having gained a foothold through tolerance, the group then becomes passionately intolerant toward any residual moral opposition because it considers such opposition to be unjust and not just intolerant.

Note what’s happening. The revolutionary group only uses Tolerance as a pseudo-moral shield to gain enough social acceptance so that it can claim affirmation as a matter of justice. The group’s members begin by demanding Tolerance but soon shift to a real moral virtue (justice) which nihilism itself can’t support. They can then muster all the natural human hatred of injustice to defend their cause, and so become passionately intolerant of anyone who disagrees with them or even of any discussion of the morality of their cause. Is that what happened to Mrs. Pitt? It’s a question worth asking. Are we allowed to ask it?

Realistic Tolerance. Realistic tolerance comes about because there is a recognition that, for whatever reason, one’s society is divided about certain issues or suffers certain defects, and these issues cannot be resolved or defects mended without incurring even more harm than is being caused by the division and defects. Unlike Nihilistic Tolerance, Realistic Tolerance doesn’t give up on the notion of truth or moral goodness. Rather it realizes that in this imperfect world, we must bear, we must endure, these defects the best we can, even while we as a society aim toward truth and virtue. Realistic Tolerance is not a virtue, it is a necessity. And those who espouse it are very careful not to make a virtue of necessity—thereby ushering in Nihilistic Tolerance. Tolerance is not an end in itself; it is at best a means that allows us to live together as we strive, ever more diligently, toward truth and moral goodness. It allows us to be civil this side of heaven, or even better, patient with our fellow sinful human beings and with our own sinful selves.

Tolerance is necessary because you can’t jerk a warped board straight. Tolerance is what God shows toward us, choosing to try to draw us to goodness patiently, slowly bend us to goodness with mercy rather than strict justice, so that he doesn’t snap our sinful warped souls. And patience, by the way, unlike tolerance, is a virtue, a sub-virtue of courage. We tolerate what we can only change slowly, or not being God, cannot change at all. Such toleration, such bearing and enduring, gives us a real virtue, Patience.

Realistic Tolerance has risen in importance precisely because our society is becoming more and more splintered. Our fundamental views about human nature, the human good, marriage, sexuality, truth, reality, and God are at greater and greater odds. We are therefore tempted, given the sheer multiplicity, the seemingly intractable plurality, to throw in the towel, ditch patience, and settle for Nihilistic Tolerance. As this pluralism increases, the necessity of tolerance becomes so overbearing, that it soon seems to be the only source of public order to which we can cling. It starts to look like the virtue.

It’s not. As difficult as this situation is, those who still espouse Realistic Tolerance must not give up. We must have the courage, the patience, to speak boldly in the public square about the real virtues, about truth, even when we are assailed by the intolerant.


TPE ApologeticsRepublished with permission from tothesource


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