Taking the Heat

by Brett Kunkle

She glared at me for the entire two hours. I didn’t know her and I didn’t know her story, but I knew this high schooler wasn’t happy. Apparently her mother had dragged her to my apologetics seminar at a local church in Oregon and sat her in the front row, leaving me to cope with that scowl. I argued passionately for truth, the reliability of the Bible, and Jesus as the only way to God. She remained unmoved.

After 11 years of speaking for Stand to Reason, I’ve come to expect hostile reactions. People do not love the truth, they resist it. The Apostle Paul says our natural reaction is to “suppress the truth in unrighteousness” (Romans 1:18). I’ve seen it time and again. I remember the antagonistic atheist student at a private Christian school in New Zealand. I remember the angry members of S.A.N.E. (Students for A Non-religious Ethos), the student atheist club at Berkeley. I remember the hostile atheists and skeptics in the audience during my debate at Weber State University.

Even Christians will get upset during my talks. There was the Christian parent at a “Who’s Waiting for Your Kids?” seminar, disputing my view of reasonable faith. There were the high schoolers at Hume Lake camp, upset about my views on homosexuality. There was the frustrated young man arguing that inerrancy was essential to the truth of Christianity. These are just a small sampling of the upset reactions I’ve received.

I certainly don’t enjoy having people upset with me. I’d much rather people walk away from a talk feeling encouraged and excited, and of course, many do. However, Jesus’ teaching should create a healthy expectation of conflict when we live for Him and proclaim His name to a lost world.

In John 15:12-17, Jesus instructs the disciples concerning their relationship to one another: “This is My commandment, that you love one another, just as I have loved you” (v. 17). Our relationships with other believers should be marked by love—the kind of love Jesus has for us. And you might expect that if the world looks in and sees that kind of love amongst believers, they would naturally be drawn to it. However, Jesus alerts us to the typical reaction of the world…


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