Starting God-Conversations: Take the “Class-Photo” Approach
by Lenny Esposito
AS the holidays are approaching, families will be reunited and seldom seen relatives will have the opportunity to share with one another. Burt when the topic of faith comes up, the conversation can quickly turn contentious. How can you get “God conversations” started where others are interested in engaging instead of arguing with you? How do you set the stage so others won’t be put off before the conversation has begun?
First, listen more than you speak
One of the bigger problem in witnessing today is Christians equate it with preaching or dumping our information onto someone else. Some think “as long as I say ‘Jesus died for you’ and share a couple of scriptures, my witnessing obligations have been met!” That’s a complete misconception of what sharing the Gospel is. Jesus never did this. Jesus actually cared enough about each person he engaged to ask them about their lives and he tailored his conversation to their interests. With the religious leaders (Nicodemus/Pharisees) He discussed theology and with the common people (woman at the well, the blind man) he engaged them in the tasks they were doing or the needs they had.
With Zaccheus, Jesus went further. Zaccheus was a tax collector; this meant his attention to the Jewish laws and requirements were not strictly observed “because someone unreligious enough to collect taxes would not be careful about tithing his foodstuffs.”1 But Jesus wanted to build a relationship with Zaccheus, not just preach at him, so he invited himself over for dinner. It was the building of intimacy and the care that Jesus showed towards Zaccheus the individual that prove3d effective in the sinner’s repentance…
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